mystery of life

Different Perspectives Of Life…..

"Life : An Unsolved Mystery"

Life the unpredictable journey of time...
Where we don't know what tomorrow may lead us to....
Made of the bitter and sweet experiences,
Meeting of wrong persons and the best one,
The hurts and the joy,
The sorrows and happiness,
The joy of fulfillment of expectations and the sorrow of the unfulfilled wishes,
Love and just attraction,

How to define the life....?
Can we do that...?
I am trying to do that and still wondering,
Sometimes finding the meaning stuck me on some points also...But simply trying to express it with my words and some experiences...

1) Different perspectives of life :

Every human has two sides of their life,
More precisely two parts
“Good Part" and the "Worst Part".

It is not the good part that makes us succeed or worst that leads us to failure.
It is up to us that how we respond to that thing.
Let's take an example of a person with evil heart but still he was good at some extent.
But we are get used to see the worst part only....

We all have heard the name of "Ravan" , The character from Ramayana...
Can we judge that man...?

He kidnapped "Sitaji" for marrying with her even he was aware that she is married.
But he had never done the things what he was capable of.
Still we burn that man every year.
And the rapists are wondering freely now a days.
We just know only worst parts...

We just blame other that they are not doing the work properly or not making the things done in which way it has to be...

Ever we tried to judge us...?
Are we doing the right things always.?

It is easy to pointing the finger to someone's fault but ask ourselves.
Are we at the position that we can find the faults of others......?

It's easy to figure out the faults but accepting ours is not that easy.
We have a common mentality to see the faults or negative things only....
Even we have been taught from our childhood to see the good things everywhere.

I can't understand why but really most of the people don't try to see the good things..

Why we never choose the light over the darkness,
The love over the hate,
We chose the hate because we don't know the true meaning of love.

The people who quit their lives perhaps they have just considered the bad parts only...if they know the beauty of life they never quit...

Everything has its own beauty just require to see the right eyes.
Beauty or the beast everyone have the heart...

Everyone have the dark side
But we need to believe that
No matter what happens to us,
No matter how much darkness infects us we can come back from that.
We can redeem our self.

We just see what he/she is......
But never try to understand why he/she is here...
What situation made them the person we don't wanna see.
No one born with the bad thoughts or negativity...

That is our society, the people,
the situations that forces the person to change...

Everyone have bad days in their life
but some gets broken
while other pick the broken pieces
(bad moments) and
Just move on...
it's just bad moment not bad life....

Life is not always just the bunch of flowers there must some pains also...

The constant life will never lead to the new things or understanding us the value of the Good parts...

Just think the life as a son of billionaire...
If you ask for the water
You will get the milk and also ask what flavor of milk you'll like..?
And at other end,
The child of a poor will not be able to get the drinkable water also....

That poor can know that how valuable this water is...

Sometimes we complains continuously that i am not having this or that
But just think...

The thing or object we are demanding for,
Was it with us from our birth..?

The answer is no...
We won't have that thing yesterday still we were happy...
and today we are striving for it....

It doesn't mean that we shouldn't think or dream for new things but at least we can live the life...
It is not oxygen...

Even some people have not enough clothes or food also still they have happiness in their faces.
Wrong and excessive expectations make us unhappy...

A single thing which can be boon for someone and the same can be curse for someone...

A pilot driving a plane,
Flying in the sky look down towards the land
and think that when i will see my place home...

And the another one sees the plane flying and think when i will get this joy of flying in the sky...
One person want to ”leave” that life and another want to “live” that life....the object is same...

So without complaining we must have to learn to appreciate the things we got...
If we don't than probably
We will know the worth of that after we lose it...

It is not possible to understand the value of sweetness of sugar until or unless we haven't experience of something bitter...
Only our past experiences that make us present one.
What we are today is what we were yesterday...
So without crying or striving we just have to understand the things we have in present...

We are here to learn not to judge..
Even a freezed watch shows the right time twice in a day...
Than we are the humans the only creation of god whom is capable of doing anything.

We all have something that unique part that no one can know better than us....

Life is nothing but a play with not given the script...
an equipment without user’s manual,
A mystery to be solved,

Everyone is here to play his/her role...and no one will do that for you...
God just push us and tell show me your talent...
Sometimes we copy to others but why we don't understand that we are only a single piece...

No one can play the role of you better than yourself.

We have mentality that what i am doing is right or what i am seeing is reality but keep in mind there are various perspectives or various ways of seeing that single thing.

In Mahabharata there is a good example of seeing the things.
"Yudhishthir" and "Duryodhan" both have given a task, for "Yudhishthir" to find bad person and for "Duryodhan" to find a good person from whole the world.

When they came back everyone was surprised.
Both were failed to find and complete their task.
"Yudhishthir" failed to find the bad person and even "Duryodhan" was also failed to find a good person from whole world.

We can understand clearly that why both were failed because both have different way of seeing the things.

Same here we all are getting used to see the two parts good and worst.
But mostly as I believe to see the good part is more likely to choose.
It is able to change the whole world or situation you are facing.
Really it can change the whole life.
Don't see the pains as panic and blessings as blossom. Everything is required.
The cloud of disappointments will be turned into the rain of happiness. Everything will pass.

And for a blossom (happiness) it is required the clouds (pains) and the storms (Disappointments)
Everything is tend to change just required some time.

Life is combination of joy and sorrows.
And both are incomplete without each other.
Like a piano black switches are the bad moments and the whites are precious moments.
But both are essential to complete the music (balancing of both).

But negativity in terms of getting something is good.
We can think like i am not good, required more efforts more improvements.
I will do some extra ordinary things and learn new every day until my last breath.
I will fly over the sky not with the wings but with my thoughts.
We are humans capable of everything just required to change disabilities into the strength.
It is so easy to giving up but so much harder so much strength, so much courage is required to do hard work.
There are some victories which can't be described in the words only.

Here we have some examples whom have turned their disabilities into the victories.
They have never considered their disabilities as weakness.

1) Sudha Chandran :
Indian classical dancer and TV actress met an accident at the age of 17.She lost her left leg.
But this brave woman did not give up her indomitable spirit and living with the Jaipur foot.

A film was made on the basis of her real life story “Nache Mayuri”, where she played her character.
She has been honored with numerous awards.

2) Bharat Kumar :
Bharat kumar was born with right hand by birth, but his physical disability never dissuade him from pursuing his dreams.
He has won 2 international titles,
One gold medal and 40 national level medals in swimming.

3) Stephen Hawking :
One of the greatest physicists suffers from motor neuron disease and speaks with the help of voice synthesizer.
Still he is working and researching.

4) Lizzie Velasquez :
She has a rare “Congenital disease” she has zero percent body fat and has never weighed more than 29 kg. She is blind from one eye.
She is a motivational speaker and have written books on teenagers.
A documentary film “A brave heart” is also published.

5) Nick Vujicic :
A rare disorder characterized by the absence of legs and arms. He struggled mentally and emotionally and physically.
He is a great motivational speaker an presents speeches on living with disabilities and finding hope and meaning of life.
He has written many books also.

So this is the spirit of changing the worst condition into the favorable.
They are suffering from various disorders still  “ They have life because they see the life differently ”.
We have everything two hands, Two legs, Two eyes still we are not happy with them and instead of being thankful with it we just try to finding the faults.
It is required to be happy with what we have.

“Disability is a state of mind and it’s useless to fight fire with fire”
“You got to face your own demons “

So,not required to change the whole world just required to change our thinking and the way of seeing the things.

“Nazar ko badlo nazaare badal jayenge,
Soch ko badlo sitaare badal jayenge,
Naav ko badlne ki zaroorat nhi,
Bs kastiyaan bdlo kinaare badal jayenge”.

I apologize if I have hurt anyone by my article.
I am just trying to make everyone understand about the seeing the things in different way.

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